Adopting a new attitude.

Adopting a new attitude.


I was out for dinner and drinks (a lot of drinks) on Saturday night with the husband, and his aunt and uncle. They’re both in their forties  and are going through the adoption process at the minute.

They tried for a long time to have children of their own.. I think they had two or three failed IVF attempts and they mutually agreed to stop because the Clomid wasn’t doing my aunt any favours. I don’t know every detail because they don’t really discuss it a lot but I know they’ve had to deal with miscarriage too.

I was always unsure about adoption. Not that I don’t think it’s it’s wonderful thing to do.. but I just wasn’t sure it was for me. Now though,  I can see myself warming to the idea. Don’t get me wrong.. I want to continue trying naturally for a few more years,  but if it came to it.. and it wasn’t happening for us – it’s something I would definitely consider.

I don’t know if the process is different in America, but here they’ve been able to pick their age group of “0-4”. They’ve been scrutinised for a long time – their jobs, their home, their relationship with each other and with other family members.. its been a long draining process for them I think.

Their final step is to go to a panel, then if they’re approved by them.. it’ll just be a waiting game. Once a child is best matched for them, they’ll be able to bring them home.
(Fostering to begin with, then eventually adoption).

My husband said how amazing it is that in a few months time there could be a new addition to our family.. a child out there somewhere that has no idea his or her life will change for the better. They’ll be with parents that will love them so much, and welcomed in to a family that knows how important they are. It really is a beautiful thing.

Am I ok now?

Am I ok now?

I haven’t blogged in a while.. well a while for me. It’s been nearly 2 weeks I think..  I tend to blog more when I’m upset or frustrated or just looking for someone to hear me vent (it’s a bad habit, I really need to start blogging more on good days too otherwise I’ll just come off as a grumpy, sad, angry woman!)

If I haven’t blogged then it must be a good sign though? I’ve been feeling pretty good recently. I still have people asking if I’ve managed to get pregnant yet and I still seem to be surrounded by pregnant women. I of course still want to be pregnant but I’m okay with it all. I really am.

(And this is coming from a woman who’s slap bang in the middle of her TWW)