I’ve been feeling pretty eager to try again after my last miscarriage. This one happened almost immediately so it was physically easier to get over. Medically speaking, we can try straight away.
My husband said to me he wasn’t so sure. He thinks we’re not there emotionally. On reflection, he’s probably right. But what women ever tells her husband he’s right?
I sometimes wonder if I’m being selfish. Should I listen to what he’s saying? Should we wait? Should we stop “trying” and I can just put it to the back of my mind? How do you do that though? How can I just switch off wanting to be a mum?