Christmas Blues

Christmas Blues

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I’ve been feeling pretty eager to try again after my last miscarriage. This one happened almost immediately so it was physically easier to get over. Medically speaking, we can try straight away. 
My husband said to me he wasn’t so sure. He thinks we’re not there emotionally. On reflection, he’s probably right. But what women ever tells her husband he’s right? 

I sometimes wonder if I’m being selfish. Should I listen to what he’s saying? Should we wait? Should we stop “trying” and I can just put it to the back of my mind? How do you do that though? How can I just switch off wanting to be a mum? 

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4 thoughts on “Christmas Blues

  1. It’s give and take. You aren’t being selfish wanting a baby, he isn’t being selfish not wanting to have one right this second, so much so it begins to overtake your life.

    But you need to decide whose more desperate, and it sounds like you are, for a baby. So I think keep trying, otherwise you are going to sit around wishing you were trying. But only if that is definitely what you want. Xx

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    1. Thanks for commenting:) I think it’s more that he worries about me and less about not wanting one right now. I just sometimes read his actions/words as something else. I guess I’d like a bit more enthusiasm maybe. I know I want a child, I’m just terrified it won’t happen.

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  2. Hahaha omg its the worst! “it’ll happen when u aren’t thinking about it”… oh problem solved then! So simple really isn’t it?! Just commenting on post can help… we all know what it’s like to hear those phrases, and they don’t help at all. Having someone thats been through it, or going through it is so much more helpful… they have a much better level of understanding. So thank you 🙂

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